Karena mau merit....

I pray you'll be our eyes, and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer, as we go our way
Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe

-= The Prayer - Michelle Brach and Josh Groban =-

Sometimes it's hard to see beyond the choice we have to make and it is easier for us to blame others when the consequences from our choices come to challenge us.

I hate when my friends tell me about their problem with their spouse/partner.It's like they don't realize the choice they make and the promise they take.I mean somebody doesn't have to put a gun against their head when they decide to get married rite ?

A lack of understanding from their mind is what cause them to make blow up on the real problem.That's why they should read "Don't sweat the small stuff in love" (I'm not into this book thou,but as a matter a fact a lot of couple is..sweating on the small stuff).The bump on the love road is just ...a bump.It's not like a nuclear strike or Carpet bombing.Just undergo the bump...together.The ability to see beyond choices is very necessary to a healthy love life and we can practice it in our personal life (before you involve everybody else in your mess).

So when the tides comes (because the choice you make) you already prepare the boat and the safety jacket.

It take a Heaven of courage to make a decision,but it takes double of the effort to face the consequences. -= Sondi=-

narsis banget yakk