Love...illusion or truth ?

I just found out a good argument about love, is it an illusion or is it true ?

Well, we have to look it at the same perspective i suppose, if you think that love is just a state of mind,an euphoria of the soul.Then,maybe love is illusion.

Example:

A girl is looking at a handsome boy (handsome is of course a relative terms,while ugly is absolute ^_^).This girl will having a certain illusion of what it's like to be that boy girlfriends...the process of such illusion is what we call falling in love.If the girl is not wake up soon enough she will be married still with such condition in her mind....they all said that when you are falling in love it is much more like sedative,you keep asking for more.

When the reality slap you in the face thats where the true form of such illusion reign her....well,her life could go miserable for falling in love (illusion).


But of course who are we to judge that love between the two person is an illusion ?What i was trying to say...are you sure that your love with your spouse is not an illusion ?

When you are preparing for your wedding ,you have to take a look on things...many things...even the wedding vow.That makes me think....like using my brain thinking...

I want to make my own love declaration....yeah its a declaration instead of wedding vow.Why ? because i am so gonna change that maybe i could not keep a vow or a wedding,not being pessimistic but who can guarantee that it will last for a lifetime...but,on the contrary if i declare my love is eternal...i will love my partner anyway..even if she does not want to be my wife anymore.

So below is some scribble about my love declaration a.k.a wedding vow:

Today i, Sontoloyo declare my love to Ms Sontoloyo for a lifetime, i decide to love her not because what she could give me,but for what i could give her.I decide to love her in her sad times and in my sad moments.I decide to love her when i am up and i am down.I decide to love her and grow with her together.I decide to love her and my family from now on till God take me to heaven.I decide that love will be the foundation of our relationship and communication.

and that just a scribble or a draft..i might not use any of that words...i might use it all.

I also believe that love is a decision,not a chance...not even a sanctuary for happiness...because i know that sometimes loves will bring you pain and sorrow so you could grow, a laughter and tears so you could measure your own strength.

Because i believe that love,truth ,freedom and God vibrate at the same frequency.