Jodoh...Darimana yah ?

Jodoh itu dari siapa ? well kalau elo percaya bahwa Tuhan adalah Segalanya...maka jawabannya yah pasti iya dari Tuhan.(berarti kan hansip itu Tuhan,temen itu Tuhan,gunung himalaya itu Tuhan,Tante itu Tuhan).

Mengenai jodoh (atau apapun) gue percaya bahwa "Tuhan menentukan , manusia berusaha".Jangan di balik yah....kalau di balik kesannya terlalu mengkambing hitamkan Tuhan..

So elo pasti percaya bahwa: kalau Tuhan tidak menaruh jodoh elo di atas bumi ini elo kaga akan dapet jodoh ...the fact that semua yang diciptakan di dunia ini berpasangan (di alkitab sih begitu)....berarti elo juga udah ada pasangannya...and yess berarti Tuhan sudah menentukan sejak awal....selanjutnya adalah proses penemuan pasangan elo sendiri...konyolnya si Tuhan itu...Dia kaga pernah ngasih tau kapan (waktu/when),yang mana(jumlah relasi yang harus dibangun/who) dan dimana(tempat/where) jodoh elo berada...you do the why and how yourself.

Ada orang yang jodohnya datang cepat (waktu singkat), ada orang yang jodohnya dekat (tempatnya) ,ada orang yang sekali pacaran langsung jadi pasangan seumur hidup (jumlah relasi sedikit).

What to do then ???

Oke beruntung ada teori statistik....

Asumption : there is a whole deck of 52 cards (bridge playing cards)...

We believe that there is 4 Aces in that deck right ?

If we shuffle it and we put it in the table...how many Aces could we find in that deck ? still 4 aces....

Is it gonna be Ace at the first time we flip the top of the deck ?? maybe....maybe not.
So after a couple of cards we turned but we did not find the aces...do we loose our believe about 4 aces in every deck of whole cards ? No...and that kind of believe is something that we believe that jodoh itu dari Tuhan ...but we just have to open another cards to find it...Also added a couple of equation like you are not searching for 4 aces...you are searching for 1 ace only...the variable is :

1. Your understanding about what your ace would be ? (color,mark,value,physical appearance etc)
2. How many cards you have to turn to find your ace ? (because it is not as simple as 52 cards).
3. When you decide to turn the card and the next one ?
4. When you will give up finding your ace and satisfied with kings or jacks cards ?
5. and so on (gue males mikirnya)

So, all man (human being not gender) must strive to find the right person to spend their life with....is it gonna be hard ? it is always depends on how your judgment about yourself and your life.