Bad Teacher

I Was intrigue to expand my comment from my writting in here

There is something funny about life that i try to understand (i try to undestand it quite long now,but still...) that life is a very bad teacher..yes a bad teacher indeed.

Life will give you a lesson that you must learn quickly or you will miss the point given.But, sometimes life give you a lesson that so important to you..it will always repeat itself if you don't get it at the first try...and the lesson will always harder and harder until you get the point.

E.g
There is a girl that have a heartache because her boyfriend cheat on her while she is pregnant.Her reality devastate her so much that she decided to have a lesbian relationship hoping that woman never betrayed her.Finally she is having a realationship with a woman that already have a girlfriend (hmmm...ring a bell ?).The woman tell her that she will dump her girlfriend so that she and the woman could live happy ever after,but until now their relationship still hanging in the loose.

This is a kind of a case where the lesson still persist on the girls life.I don't know what is the lesson but my thought is she must learn to pick a whole lot of information (and using a couple of brain cell instead of heart felt alone) before giving her love to someone else.

Have you ever been in this kind of situation before ? the kind that repeat but with diffrent people or circumstances ?

E.g 2
I Met with a girl and date her for a month or so, then she is trying to get a clear relationship with me, she need a comitment.I never want to commit with a girl because i know that i don't have the resource necessary to make the commitment works such as time,care,money etc.It' will always repeat with other girl i dated until i get the point that you must make a decission to commit and then the resources will gather itself around me because i'm focusing on the comitment to make it work.

maybe both of the examples is a lousy one but i hope you all get the point for what i'm trying to say.Decission is something so important that it will change our life.Sometimes we make one but we don't commit on it or we make it then we undo it.

Life is a bad teacher..the lesson will be the same,but the methode of teaching will always harder than before to make sure we get the point of it.


"SOMEBODY MAKE A DECISSION, AND THEIR LIFE WILL CHANGE FOREVER"