The seach within

Soulmate,The search Within

I was writing a blog about soulmate earlier, and i think it’s about time i write another one in this blog.I don’t really feel i have a soulmate for now, not that in romantic way of course.Infact that’s what i want to write about now.Being somebody’s soulmate (maybe) is not so tough at all.You just have to be a little bit of somebody who have an awareness,not too much thinking about yourself, but be a lot of of yourself.It’s the chemistry that will glue you with that person.Of course you need to share a lot of common interest with them, and that is your starting point.

First of all, do soulmate really exist ? Well, the answer is between yes or no, it depends about what do you think relationship is.Is it have to be mutual ? or it could go one way.The hardest part in building a relationship is you never know what the expectation in the other line of relationship.We try such and such just to figure it out.If i do this or that, is it makes them mad ? makes them cry ? makes them happy ?

It’s almost keep our insanity at bay but that’s just the way it is.We try so hard until we forget that the essence of togetherness is.....being together...not to be somebody to make them laugh or happy (or sad too of course).So i will start from that.Soulmate is about togetherness not have to be so physically about it but better in heart and mind.

Soulmate is somebody you can be comfortable with,by even imagine them you can find a scent of soothing experience.Soulmate is somebody “quote from ellen : where your soul and them clenched together”.Its like being one with God...well,uuhmmm....more or less.(can i say better than orgasm ?? heheheheh..).

So, when we feel that unity with somebody (even when we just knew them for less than 1 hour, than we might be meet our soulmate).But of course it can be build as well (such unity) we can try all the things to build that kind of relationship,it’s not a nurture versus nature things...it’s like both in the diffrent package.

The question number two is : How many are they ? the answer is as many as you want, once again it’s a decission things...not even a destiny.Ellen got at least 3 of them.I got around 3-4 of them.Well, it doesn’t matter if they don’t feel the same as you do.That’s the most important part of being a soulmate, you are in a constant breathing in and out of the universe.Who said relationship is a stagnant things ?

The third question is : Is it gonna last forever ? as queer as it begin and so when it’s end.It’s a decission wether you want to hold that relationship forever or not.In all other relationship there is always a time when it will look like on dormant state.When we cannot reach each other physically or emotionally and i think it is a normal state of everything that dinamically in motion.

Conclussion : Is a soul mate worth a try (to find) ? It sure is.You just can’t find a better time spending your life without it.Love base relationship that fill out a lot of hole in my soul.