"why we cannot give our hope to someone that we love ? Isn’t dreams and hopes that keep us alive ? I just don’t get it".
Sometimes we cannot differentiate between hope and expectancies…You expect someone to come at 2 o’clock…bring you flower and candy…but they didn’t show up at all…and you get pissed by their behavior.But when you hope…you cannot get disappointed….hope is something higher,doesn’t have a moral issue.
My all time favorite motto is "Hope for the best and always prepare for the worst" so in that kind of attitude you don’t have to loose your grip in life.But, of course as a being (who try to define who he really are) i slip a couple of times (and that’s a good thing),When i make mistake i learn something to perfect my skill in dealing with life.
The secret of my happiness is Love someone unconditionally…my love is free just like God give us air to breath, God didn’t choose who can breath by whether you do good or bad things in life. So i try to make my love FREE for somebody,they don’t have to love me back…they didn’t even have to like me to have my love for them…in that way i can never expect them to react and do something as i want them to be.It’s really hard..but i’m getting better at it why ?because it’s release me from stress,from disappointment,from anger and it give me a lot of time to fill a happiness in my life.
I learn not to be afraid about loosing them and it set me free…set my heart free.
I enjoy all the small things they give me (even the slightest smile from their face as i express my love to them is enough for me).How can i do that ? because i set my mental at abundant level (try reading "7 highly effective people" by Steven covey).I feel that my love never depleted…because all the people that love me and…God.
Love,especially mine is like a glass and a jar….a glass is myself…a jar is my love.So if i want to love myself i pour my love to my glass (mind you that the jar never be empty)
If i said i love somebody,i pour my love to myself until it was full and the love just out of my glass to other glass….so i will never have an empty glass and my love for others is merely the abundant love from my glass…
also i receive love from other glass….but sometimes they don’t have (or didn’t notice) that they have a jar.So they need other liquid from other glass to make their glass full…if their glass empty (because they give the love liquid to somebody they love) they became sad,self pity and feel useless .Then comes the terms "conditional love" …i give you my love only if you give me yours….(to fill my glass back).
But my glass is always full,and other love that pour on my glass brings another color of my love liquid…so i don’t need anybody to pour their love on me (because my glass is always full) but when they do i become much more colorful (and i thank you for all of you that pour your love on my glass) and i can share more love to other glass for there is no such things as useless love.
My good friend of mine told me this lovely sentences "The seeds that ever been cast will never return for nothing"…that’s why a cast my love to others…even if it doesn’t come back for me, i believe…someone, somewhere will have their love shared…..
"For love is all we are and always will be"
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