I am not Sorry

Forgiveness is something that we cannot have it easily this days.People trying to hurt others neither they realize it or not.Sometimes we care nothing for any action we make or any words we said to others.

"Please stop before you feel sorry about anything you said" -=You’ve got mail=-

Living in this fast pace world of information we could not control any longer all the things we know or hear or watch or see….things just keep coming and going really fast.

Sometimes the abuse of our tools God create us to gather information is just as normal as sunrise.

How many hours we have to look at email,commercials and newspaper ?

How many hour we have to hear things that we shouldn’t or don’t want to hear ?

Input must determine the output more or less.When i study computer programming i learn GIGO (Garbage in ,Garbage Out).What comes in will eventually comes out.

If you put something positive in the system,then it will (hopefully) comes a positive result.

But if you put something negative in the system,soon or latter the negative will find a way to come out.

Choose your input !!

If there is any option you have to make everyday…choose positive.Stop reading,hearing,seeing,watching negative news…it won’t kill you..but it will get you killed someday.Start yearning for positive input.

Ugh head…ouch…ouch….positive…..positive…….

Eenie, Meenie , Minee, Moo

I pray you’ll be our eyes, and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we don’t know
Let this be our prayer, as we go our way
Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we’ll be safe

-= The Prayer - Michelle Brach and Josh Groban =-

Sometimes it’s hard to see beyond the choice we have to make and it is easier for us to blame others when the consequences from our choices come to challenge us.

I hate when my friends tell me about their problem with their spouse/partner.It’s like they don’t realize the choice they make and the promise they take.I mean somebody doesn’t have to put a gun against their head when they decide to get married rite ?

A lack of understanding from their mind is what cause them to make blow up on the real problem.That’s why they should read "Don’t sweat the small stuff in love" (i’m not into this book thou,but as a matter a fact a lot of couple is..sweating on the small stuff).The bump on the love road is just …a bump.It’s not like a nuclear strike or Carpet bombing.Just undergo the bump…together.The ability to see beyond choices is very necessary to a healthy love life and we can practice it in our personal life (before you involve everybody else in your mess).

So when the tides comes (because the choice you make) you already prepare the boat and the safety jacket.

It take a Heaven of courage to make a decission,but it takes double of the effort to face the consequences. -= Sondi=-

The Secret of my Happiness

My friend once asked me this question:

"why we cannot give our hope to someone that we love ? Isn’t dreams and hopes that keep us alive ? I just don’t get it".

Sometimes we cannot differentiate between hope and expectancies…You expect someone to come at 2 o’clock…bring you flower and candy…but they didn’t show up at all…and you get pissed by their behavior.But when you hope…you cannot get disappointed….hope is something higher,doesn’t have a moral issue.

My all time favorite motto is "Hope for the best and always prepare for the worst" so in that kind of attitude you don’t have to loose your grip in life.But, of course as a being (who try to define who he really are) i slip a couple of times (and that’s a good thing),When i make mistake i learn something to perfect my skill in dealing with life.

The secret of my happiness is Love someone unconditionally…my love is free just like God give us air to breath, God didn’t choose who can breath by whether you do good or bad things in life. So i try to make my love FREE for somebody,they don’t have to love me back…they didn’t even have to like me to have my love for them…in that way i can never expect them to react and do something as i want them to be.It’s really hard..but i’m getting better at it why ?because it’s release me from stress,from disappointment,from anger and it give me a lot of time to fill a happiness in my life.

I learn not to be afraid about loosing them and it set me free…set my heart free.

I enjoy all the small things they give me (even the slightest smile from their face as i express my love to them is enough for me).How can i do that ? because i set my mental at abundant level (try reading "7 highly effective people" by Steven covey).I feel that my love never depleted…because all the people that love me and…God.

Love,especially mine is like a glass and a jar….a glass is myself…a jar is my love.So if i want to love myself i pour my love to my glass (mind you that the jar never be empty)

If i said i love somebody,i pour my love to myself until it was full and the love just out of my glass to other glass….so i will never have an empty glass and my love for others is merely the abundant love from my glass…

also i receive love from other glass….but sometimes they don’t have (or didn’t notice) that they have a jar.So they need other liquid from other glass to make their glass full…if their glass empty (because they give the love liquid to somebody they love) they became sad,self pity and feel useless .Then comes the terms "conditional love" …i give you my love only if you give me yours….(to fill my glass back).

But my glass is always full,and other love that pour on my glass brings another color of my love liquid…so i don’t need anybody to pour their love on me (because my glass is always full) but when they do i become much more colorful (and i thank you for all of you that pour your love on my glass) and i can share more love to other glass for there is no such things as useless love.

My good friend of mine told me this lovely sentences "The seeds that ever been cast will never return for nothing"…that’s why a cast my love to others…even if it doesn’t come back for me, i believe…someone, somewhere will have their love shared…..

"For love is all we are and always will be"