This morning i read a newspaper and was shock about one of the news.
13 years old boy killed a 45 years old lady over a bicycle he does not own.The lady who was his neighbor is feel sorry for him because he cannot go to school any longer.So the lady often asked him to work at her lawn and do some errand in exchange of food and cash.
The boy interested in the old lady bicycle that he saw in her garage.The boy asked the lady a couple of times to give the bicycle to him,but the lady always ignore him.
The boy got disappointed and planning to kill the lady in result the death of the lady and he also injured the maid that also working at lady's house.
Can you imagine a 13 y.o boy ? When i was his age...i did not even have a sightliest idea on holding a grudge against anybody that much.I watch a lot of goggle V movies with a lot of "action" in it...but still it never cross my mind.
Not that i never feel disappointed at that age.Its just if i disappointed at somebody i simply does not want to show my face around that guy anymore....not kill him/her.
This case is more about value...what do you taught to your offspring about life.About love and compassion.With that kind of attitude that kid will never have an abundant life...never.
It is too bad that the newspaper does not collaborate more about his family background and stress on the event.
For me,this event remind me of my job as a parent.Make me think about it really careful and thank God i also seen a nice little kids out there and i want my child to be like them.
Maybe the lack of raw model is one of the problems with kids nowadays.
For all of you who read this post....please do as hard as you can to be a model for the child among you....you just never know what kind of influence you give to them...neither you realize it or not.
-= Your action speak so loud that they cannot hear what you say =-
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
pacarmu adalah adik angkatku
Gue dapet curhatan menarik nih dari sini
Curhatannya:
saia mau minta pendapat apa yg harus saia lakukan..
soalnya gua suka sama cewe yg udah punya cowonyaa....
tapi gua sayang bgt ma dia ....
untuk sementara ini dia maunya kakak- adek aja..
tapi perhatiannya dia itu berubah saat dia bilang mau kakak- adek an aja..
jadi care bangett...
gmn neeh bingungg....what im gonna do now..????
kira2 neh...bisa nggak gua ngedapetin dia....
Salah satu tanggapan dari anggota forumnya:
Nih gua bilangin, secara gw pernah ada di posisi cowok nya dan elu adalah yang kakak adiknya, kalau gw ketemu elu, dan gw tau hal itu, gw akan gantung lu di lantai paling atas gedung BNI 46 dan akan gw lempar kebawah setelah seharian gw gantung.
My Comment:
Wohoohhoohoho....kenapa sih perempuan suka mempermainkan cowo dengan kata2 kakak/adik angkat ? This is very2 ridiculous deh menurut gue.
Sebagai makluk yang punya perasaan di dengkul hihihihihihi cowo itu sangat sulit mengartikan keadaan seperti yang dialami oleh curhaters.
Cowo adalah makhluk to the point yang tidak nyaman dan rada2 pandir bila berada di daerah abu2.
I bet this is happening in a lot of life this days...i hate to break it but
"GET UP AND SMELL THE STARBUCKS"
Wahai cowo yang berada di luar sanah...jangan pernah mau jadi kakak angkat atau punya adik angkat...
pertama...cewe itu berat, mana kuat elo ngangkatnya.....lebih dari satu hari.....sedangkat status itu bisa berlangsung selama bertahun-tahun (bisa loh..bukan kudu).
Kedua....ini sama kayak legalize TTM, if you want to say that legal.Kalau dia di tanya sama cowonya dia bisa bilang dia cuman kakak gue kok...beuhh puhh leeezzz deh ah....elo kagak akan dapet apa2 kecuali perhatian platonik yang muncul tiba2 (apalagi kalau mereka berdua lagi berantem).
Ketiga...just a waste of time, money and care-ness (kagak ada di kamus)...you can spend it with somebody more worthwhile.
Ke empat.....Masih banyak cewe lain di luar sana sedang menunggu duit dan waktu elo hehehehehe.....ingat sensus penduduk terakhir cowo banding cewe masih 1 : 3 so...masih minimal 2 lagi cewe di luar sana menunggu elo.Ga worth it kalau elo ketemu sama cowo yang komentar di atas itu hihihiihihihi.
Ke lima....the last but not the least.....berhenti mempermainkan perasaan seseorang, kalau elo kagak suka diperlalukan seperti itu...jangan memperlakukan orang seperti itu.
-= What goes around, comes around =-
Curhatannya:
saia mau minta pendapat apa yg harus saia lakukan..
soalnya gua suka sama cewe yg udah punya cowonyaa....
tapi gua sayang bgt ma dia ....
untuk sementara ini dia maunya kakak- adek aja..
tapi perhatiannya dia itu berubah saat dia bilang mau kakak- adek an aja..
jadi care bangett...
gmn neeh bingungg....what im gonna do now..????
kira2 neh...bisa nggak gua ngedapetin dia....
Salah satu tanggapan dari anggota forumnya:
Nih gua bilangin, secara gw pernah ada di posisi cowok nya dan elu adalah yang kakak adiknya, kalau gw ketemu elu, dan gw tau hal itu, gw akan gantung lu di lantai paling atas gedung BNI 46 dan akan gw lempar kebawah setelah seharian gw gantung.
My Comment:
Wohoohhoohoho....kenapa sih perempuan suka mempermainkan cowo dengan kata2 kakak/adik angkat ? This is very2 ridiculous deh menurut gue.
Sebagai makluk yang punya perasaan di dengkul hihihihihihi cowo itu sangat sulit mengartikan keadaan seperti yang dialami oleh curhaters.
Cowo adalah makhluk to the point yang tidak nyaman dan rada2 pandir bila berada di daerah abu2.
I bet this is happening in a lot of life this days...i hate to break it but
"GET UP AND SMELL THE STARBUCKS"
Wahai cowo yang berada di luar sanah...jangan pernah mau jadi kakak angkat atau punya adik angkat...
pertama...cewe itu berat, mana kuat elo ngangkatnya.....lebih dari satu hari.....sedangkat status itu bisa berlangsung selama bertahun-tahun (bisa loh..bukan kudu).
Kedua....ini sama kayak legalize TTM, if you want to say that legal.Kalau dia di tanya sama cowonya dia bisa bilang dia cuman kakak gue kok...beuhh puhh leeezzz deh ah....elo kagak akan dapet apa2 kecuali perhatian platonik yang muncul tiba2 (apalagi kalau mereka berdua lagi berantem).
Ketiga...just a waste of time, money and care-ness (kagak ada di kamus)...you can spend it with somebody more worthwhile.
Ke empat.....Masih banyak cewe lain di luar sana sedang menunggu duit dan waktu elo hehehehehe.....ingat sensus penduduk terakhir cowo banding cewe masih 1 : 3 so...masih minimal 2 lagi cewe di luar sana menunggu elo.Ga worth it kalau elo ketemu sama cowo yang komentar di atas itu hihihiihihihi.
Ke lima....the last but not the least.....berhenti mempermainkan perasaan seseorang, kalau elo kagak suka diperlalukan seperti itu...jangan memperlakukan orang seperti itu.
-= What goes around, comes around =-
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Healing Phenomenon
Membaca (mengikuti tepatnya) berita akhir-akhir ini mengenai seorang bocah yang mampu menyembuhkan segala macam penyakit orang lain dengan cara memberi minum air bekas celupan tangan bocah tersebut membuat gue takjub.
Bayangkan kemacetan yang terjadi akibat pasien mengantri hingga sepanjang 4 kilometer.Wedew !
Is it really proven ? well all i know that there is a lot of people think it is.
That makes me think about "Collective Consciousness" , how a fate of one nation determined by the thoughts of the people.
You see, if you read a lot of books about minds and what they are capable of, you began to think that all of this is make sense.Mind is amazing things and it could create reality out of thin air.
If you think you could get a healing from a water...then you will eventually.
That puts you in deeper question is it God gift to the boy or for the people who are sick ?
What i believe is as long as they do it for the act of love it is God given.
People are healed,what do you expect ? it is increasing the life expectancy, which is good ...right ?
Now there is another story with the same theme...a thunder rock from Jombang that could heal people sickness.....thats good too,why ? that mean now more people could be healed.
In the middle of a great crisis such as this...i think it is a positive news.
you know what funny is ? once the government try to fix the reaction of the people...everything just begin to fall apart now....they just shut down the practice of the Ponari aka "Miracle boy".
"For i will come to save the world with my blood" -= Isa Al Masih =-
Bayangkan kemacetan yang terjadi akibat pasien mengantri hingga sepanjang 4 kilometer.Wedew !
Is it really proven ? well all i know that there is a lot of people think it is.
That makes me think about "Collective Consciousness" , how a fate of one nation determined by the thoughts of the people.
You see, if you read a lot of books about minds and what they are capable of, you began to think that all of this is make sense.Mind is amazing things and it could create reality out of thin air.
If you think you could get a healing from a water...then you will eventually.
That puts you in deeper question is it God gift to the boy or for the people who are sick ?
What i believe is as long as they do it for the act of love it is God given.
People are healed,what do you expect ? it is increasing the life expectancy, which is good ...right ?
Now there is another story with the same theme...a thunder rock from Jombang that could heal people sickness.....thats good too,why ? that mean now more people could be healed.
In the middle of a great crisis such as this...i think it is a positive news.
you know what funny is ? once the government try to fix the reaction of the people...everything just begin to fall apart now....they just shut down the practice of the Ponari aka "Miracle boy".
"For i will come to save the world with my blood" -= Isa Al Masih =-
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
My Dilema
Ternyata jadi pengusaha kagak gampang hehehehehehe klasik yah.
But it is, satu hal yang pasti sering gemes kalau ada hal yang tidak berjalan sebagaimana mustinya.
Seharusnya bisa begini.....bisa begitu.....kalau begini...kalau begitu. dan bla bla bla yang lain.
memang ga banyak orang mau jadi pengusaha, karena kadang ada rasa "kosong" di dalam hati.Apalagi yang udah biasa jadi karyawan....bisa2 bangun tidur elo merasa kosong..do not know what to do.
Well, di sinilah kekuatan doa itu muncul....kepercayaan bahwa if you do the right thing it will pay you someday.
Personally, gue bukan orang yang gampang menyerah...tapi gue juga bukan tipe orang yang suka kerja keras hihihihihihihi...pemalas nomor wahid.
Justru, karena gue malas kalau kagak punya duit akhirnya gue berusaha....
karena gue males di marahin bos akhirnya gue memutuskan punya usaha sendiri.....
well, usaha itu butuh kesabaran dan ketekunan...untung lah in my course of life i have been trained for it.
just want to blurt it out....karena di dada ini rasanya sudah menumpuk-puk
sekarang....legaaaa.....yuuu cari makan lagi.
But it is, satu hal yang pasti sering gemes kalau ada hal yang tidak berjalan sebagaimana mustinya.
Seharusnya bisa begini.....bisa begitu.....kalau begini...kalau begitu. dan bla bla bla yang lain.
memang ga banyak orang mau jadi pengusaha, karena kadang ada rasa "kosong" di dalam hati.Apalagi yang udah biasa jadi karyawan....bisa2 bangun tidur elo merasa kosong..do not know what to do.
Well, di sinilah kekuatan doa itu muncul....kepercayaan bahwa if you do the right thing it will pay you someday.
Personally, gue bukan orang yang gampang menyerah...tapi gue juga bukan tipe orang yang suka kerja keras hihihihihihihi...pemalas nomor wahid.
Justru, karena gue malas kalau kagak punya duit akhirnya gue berusaha....
karena gue males di marahin bos akhirnya gue memutuskan punya usaha sendiri.....
well, usaha itu butuh kesabaran dan ketekunan...untung lah in my course of life i have been trained for it.
just want to blurt it out....karena di dada ini rasanya sudah menumpuk-puk
sekarang....legaaaa.....yuuu cari makan lagi.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Have you ever ?
Today i was shocked by one of my friend question.
"in your married life, have you ever wake up in the morning and wonder why do you marry your wife ?"
"is it ever occur to you that you are sorry for yourself that she is not the one you think she is?"
That was two big question with capital B in front of it.
That makes me thinking a bit (head hurts you know).
Marriage is a once in a lifetime action that have a lifetime consequences.Its about decision and a lot of analytical thinking in the process.
When all that is cute and bright subsides,the only thing that stay is your decision and your consciousness.
When we did mass in the church the priest comment about my wedding vow, he said the only thing that was true about this vow is when you say that you have a consciousness decision to love her (he like that part i guess).
I tell my friend that marriage is like when your parents sent you to school,there is no one could guarantee that their child will be graduate at the end of the year.They just do it day by day believing that if you do what the rules says, work your homework, study a lot, face the exam..you will graduate eventually.
And thats like marriage all about , follow the rules (in this case is your mental picture of a good and happy marriage), Do your homework everyday (wash the dishes,do laundry,throw the trash etc), study a lot (Read books,seek guidance,improve yourself), face the exam (face your trouble,grudge,learn to forgive...you are not marrying a God after all)......it will be till death do you part then.
The fear of commitment or marriage is often come from a dysfunctional family.
I have that...sorry to say.Fear is something that i have from my past but, fortunately it does not stop me from "jumping to the fire" aka have a marriage.
I just have to live with it every single day...if you ask me are you sure that you will have a happily ever after ?? are you sure you will stay married after 30 years from now ?
the answer is no..i am not sure..but i could tell you one thing..i am sure that today i still choose to have a married life and be happy about it.
its something you decide everyday that will count...and it could make you feel the blessing of it each day too.
So my friend..if you read this..i want you to know that there is no certainty in this life.....
but i think , in the other side of your fear you have a chance to became what you are not afraid of.
To be different then what you already experience...and it in your hands.As much as i do not want to have a relationship such as my parents.....i make a choice and i see to it that it will happen.
Marriage is an experience too beautiful not to be taken...but still i will honor your choice if you decide not to.
I always look marriage life as an opportunity for me to grow even more as a person..how you could love a person that sometimes irritate you.
"The definition of madness is : Doing the same things over and over again but you wish you get a diffrent outcome" -= Albert Einstein =-
"in your married life, have you ever wake up in the morning and wonder why do you marry your wife ?"
"is it ever occur to you that you are sorry for yourself that she is not the one you think she is?"
That was two big question with capital B in front of it.
That makes me thinking a bit (head hurts you know).
Marriage is a once in a lifetime action that have a lifetime consequences.Its about decision and a lot of analytical thinking in the process.
When all that is cute and bright subsides,the only thing that stay is your decision and your consciousness.
When we did mass in the church the priest comment about my wedding vow, he said the only thing that was true about this vow is when you say that you have a consciousness decision to love her (he like that part i guess).
I tell my friend that marriage is like when your parents sent you to school,there is no one could guarantee that their child will be graduate at the end of the year.They just do it day by day believing that if you do what the rules says, work your homework, study a lot, face the exam..you will graduate eventually.
And thats like marriage all about , follow the rules (in this case is your mental picture of a good and happy marriage), Do your homework everyday (wash the dishes,do laundry,throw the trash etc), study a lot (Read books,seek guidance,improve yourself), face the exam (face your trouble,grudge,learn to forgive...you are not marrying a God after all)......it will be till death do you part then.
The fear of commitment or marriage is often come from a dysfunctional family.
I have that...sorry to say.Fear is something that i have from my past but, fortunately it does not stop me from "jumping to the fire" aka have a marriage.
I just have to live with it every single day...if you ask me are you sure that you will have a happily ever after ?? are you sure you will stay married after 30 years from now ?
the answer is no..i am not sure..but i could tell you one thing..i am sure that today i still choose to have a married life and be happy about it.
its something you decide everyday that will count...and it could make you feel the blessing of it each day too.
So my friend..if you read this..i want you to know that there is no certainty in this life.....
but i think , in the other side of your fear you have a chance to became what you are not afraid of.
To be different then what you already experience...and it in your hands.As much as i do not want to have a relationship such as my parents.....i make a choice and i see to it that it will happen.
Marriage is an experience too beautiful not to be taken...but still i will honor your choice if you decide not to.
I always look marriage life as an opportunity for me to grow even more as a person..how you could love a person that sometimes irritate you.
"The definition of madness is : Doing the same things over and over again but you wish you get a diffrent outcome" -= Albert Einstein =-
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Kaleidoskop 2008
Ada beberapa hal yang sangat menarik....even a turn point of my life this years.
Seperti biasa akan di bagi menjadi 3 interval januari-april , mei-agustus dan september-desember.
Interval 1
Di bulan Januari gue resign dari kantor gue yang lama...pas di 11 januari adalah hari terakhir gue di kantor itu.Ada lagunya kan dari Gigi ?...mantap tuh....kita sudah membicarakan perihal pernikahan dan sebagainya.Febuari dan maret waktunya untuk foto prewed...wedewwwww....ma keren abies deh foto gue...lihat ajah bloopersnya di postingan lama gue.April adalah peristiwa lamaran....kalau kaga salah....teng teng teng.....bentar lagi masuk anggota VVTI (very Very Takut Istri) hehehehehehe.....
Oh iya somewhere di bulan ini gue akhirnya mendaftar fitness....huuffff....huufff
Interval 2
Mulai dari bulan Mei gue dapet tugas untuk mentraining dan supervisi anak marketing di Sekolah Dharma Bangsa di Lampung....yeeeeeyyy gue jalan2 naik pesawat (Norak).
Tugasnya sih quite fun..gue bisa membuat beberapa (enam) modul untuk di trainingkan ke mereka plus gue juga belajar jadi marketing yang bekerja berdasarkan target.
Karena marketingnya perempuan semua jadilah saya penyamun di sarang perempuan (ga mau bilang perawan karena saya kagak tau).
Di bulan ini juga gue dapet kecelakaan yang membuat tulang bahu kiri gue retak....gara2 nabrak separator busway di slipi.mayan bow tangan gue di gendong selama 1 bulan.
My Wedding day at the last day of this interval,huhuuhuhuhuhu wedding bertema outdoor yang sangat cantik....kalau kaga ujan sialan itu...huh..
but look at the bright side.....gue di kelilingi orang yang sayang dan perduli sama gue....its enough for me.
Egh ada tambahan....berat badan gue turun 6 kilo bow....gue terlihat keren dengan baju pengantin...kata tukang jahitnya ukuran celanannya ajah turun 2 size heheheheheheh...berhasil !
Interval 3
Wow memasuki dunia perkawinan kadang masih rada2 bingung bo....canggung gitu.
Pernah pada hari minggu malam.....gue sama dia lagi nonton TV...tiba2 gue keingetan blum nganterin dia pulang..buru2 gue mu ngambil jaket dan kunci motor sambil bilang "Pulang yuk,besok mo kerja jangan malem2 pulangnya" hheheheheheheh jelas ajah dia bengong...oh my God gue lupa udah nikah hihiihihihhih.
Kita sempet jalan2 pas lebaran..ke Malaysia,Singapore dan Thailand...GOD makanan di thailand...macem2 dan murah2.....jadi mu kesana lagi bow.
My wife is pregnant yipieeee....made in Thailand tuh anak....
Kesimpulan: Tahun 2008 is a blessing....
Resolusi 2009 :
- Pengen punya perusahaan sendiri
- Pengen punya penghasilan diatas 10 juta sebulan
- Pengen punya anak (hihihiihihihi ini mah in process)
- Pengen jaga berat badan (huhuhuhuhuuh liburan panjang bikin gue gendut lagi)
- Pengen jadi ayah yang baik (AMIN)
Seperti biasa akan di bagi menjadi 3 interval januari-april , mei-agustus dan september-desember.
Interval 1
Di bulan Januari gue resign dari kantor gue yang lama...pas di 11 januari adalah hari terakhir gue di kantor itu.Ada lagunya kan dari Gigi ?...mantap tuh....kita sudah membicarakan perihal pernikahan dan sebagainya.Febuari dan maret waktunya untuk foto prewed...wedewwwww....ma keren abies deh foto gue...lihat ajah bloopersnya di postingan lama gue.April adalah peristiwa lamaran....kalau kaga salah....teng teng teng.....bentar lagi masuk anggota VVTI (very Very Takut Istri) hehehehehehe.....
Oh iya somewhere di bulan ini gue akhirnya mendaftar fitness....huuffff....huufff
Interval 2
Mulai dari bulan Mei gue dapet tugas untuk mentraining dan supervisi anak marketing di Sekolah Dharma Bangsa di Lampung....yeeeeeyyy gue jalan2 naik pesawat (Norak).
Tugasnya sih quite fun..gue bisa membuat beberapa (enam) modul untuk di trainingkan ke mereka plus gue juga belajar jadi marketing yang bekerja berdasarkan target.
Karena marketingnya perempuan semua jadilah saya penyamun di sarang perempuan (ga mau bilang perawan karena saya kagak tau).
Di bulan ini juga gue dapet kecelakaan yang membuat tulang bahu kiri gue retak....gara2 nabrak separator busway di slipi.mayan bow tangan gue di gendong selama 1 bulan.
My Wedding day at the last day of this interval,huhuuhuhuhuhu wedding bertema outdoor yang sangat cantik....kalau kaga ujan sialan itu...huh..
but look at the bright side.....gue di kelilingi orang yang sayang dan perduli sama gue....its enough for me.
Egh ada tambahan....berat badan gue turun 6 kilo bow....gue terlihat keren dengan baju pengantin...kata tukang jahitnya ukuran celanannya ajah turun 2 size heheheheheheh...berhasil !
Interval 3
Wow memasuki dunia perkawinan kadang masih rada2 bingung bo....canggung gitu.
Pernah pada hari minggu malam.....gue sama dia lagi nonton TV...tiba2 gue keingetan blum nganterin dia pulang..buru2 gue mu ngambil jaket dan kunci motor sambil bilang "Pulang yuk,besok mo kerja jangan malem2 pulangnya" hheheheheheheh jelas ajah dia bengong...oh my God gue lupa udah nikah hihiihihihhih.
Kita sempet jalan2 pas lebaran..ke Malaysia,Singapore dan Thailand...GOD makanan di thailand...macem2 dan murah2.....jadi mu kesana lagi bow.
My wife is pregnant yipieeee....made in Thailand tuh anak....
Kesimpulan: Tahun 2008 is a blessing....
Resolusi 2009 :
- Pengen punya perusahaan sendiri
- Pengen punya penghasilan diatas 10 juta sebulan
- Pengen punya anak (hihihiihihihi ini mah in process)
- Pengen jaga berat badan (huhuhuhuhuuh liburan panjang bikin gue gendut lagi)
- Pengen jadi ayah yang baik (AMIN)
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Fun fact about Sex
Dapet dari kompas dot com nih
1. Perempuan butuh 20 menit untuk turn-on? Not exactly. Menurut sebuah penelitian yang dilakukan di McGill University, Kanada, gairah kita bisa naik hanya dalam waktu 11-12 menit saja! Wow!
Wow, masa bisa secepat itu sih? canada kan dingin mungkin perempuannya butuh kehangatan lebih....jadi orgasmenya bisa cepat.Jangan tertipu sama statistik.
2. Di Uganda, kaum perempuan dewasa gemar mengolesi area klitoris mereka dengan sejenis ramuan herbal agar penampilannya terlihat lebih 'menggoda'.
Penampilan ? Speaking about penampilan,kenapa juga rambutnya kaga di macem2 in ? *sambil ngebayangin bentuk klitoris* emang penampilannya bisa di rubah menjadi seperti apa sih ?sayang di kompas kaga ada gambarnya klitoris yang sudah "menggoda penampilannya" heheheheheh
3. Menurut survei yang dilakukan Masters dan Johnson, Amerika, sebanyak 1% perempuan yang jadi obyek penelitian mampu mengalami orgasme berganda yang hanya dipicu oleh rangsangan pada payudara.
Wow cuman satu persen bok...dari populasi berapa yah surveynya ?memang ternyata kaga cukup hanya sekwilda...women is such complicated being.
4. Seorang pria menghasilkan 3 juta sel sperma baru setiap 1 jam selama hidupnya.udah tau..biology or sexology 101
5. Kebanyakan pria mengalami 5 orgasme dalam waktu enam menit setelah terjadi penetrasi.
*cough*editansil*cough*
6. Aroma mirip'cairan pemutih kain' yang berasal dari sperma disebabkan oleh cairan pembunuh kuman alami yang terdapat di dalamnya.
Wah gue baru tau nih ada karbol di sperma
7. Kondom bisa bertahan selama sebulan dalam dompet sebelum bahan elastisnya menjadi mulur karena terkena suhu tubuh, dan membuatnya mudah sobek.
WAKS !! Cuman sebulan ? untung gue kaga pernah bawa di dompet..tapi di tempat pinsil hihihihihihii.
8. Perempuan mencapai puncak seksualitasnya pada usia 30-an dan kaum lelaki pada akhir usia belasan.
Noted !
9. Rata-rata, kaum lelaki memikirkan seks setiap tujuh menit. Jumlah itu bisa bervariasi tergantung pada usia dan derajat kesibukan sehari-hari.
AHHH..masa tujuh menit sih ? gue ajah tujuh jam blom tentu kepikiran seks...apalagi setelah selesai melakukannya hihihihihiihih....kudu recharge kali yah bow.
10. Manusia dan lumba-lumba adalah dua jenis makhluk hidup yang mampu menjadikan aktivitas seksual sebagai semacam sarana rekreasi, bukan semata-mata kebutuhan untuk berkembang biak.
Lucky You !
Friday, September 05, 2008
Curhat at my wedding day
Di bawah ini adalah report of my best friend at their best friend wedding.
Tiadakata yang bisa terucap....hanya satu....Thank you for your warm friendships.
Please ...just be happy for me.
WIDYA
31Agustus 2008, jam 20-an: My eyeball can not help it situation dweh pokoke!
EVELYN
EP (Elza Perez)
Ada episode yang hilang, yaitu episode dimana gua & Ida melantunkan lagu-lagu cinta dibawah naungan tenda dengan cahaya remang-remang dan udara yang lembab di iringi rintikan hujan, sampai membaca partitur harus dengan cahaya handphone…menghibur tamu-tamu yang gundah gulana menunggu hujan reda tapi tetep sibuk makan buah lengkeng & anggur dari meja di belakang kita…huh !
LEONY
Tiadakata yang bisa terucap....hanya satu....Thank you for your warm friendships.
Please ...just be happy for me.
WIDYA
31Agustus 2008, jam 20-an:
.....Aku berdiri di dekat area pelaminan sejak kalian mau potong kue... aku tegang krn.... yah... pokoknya karena semua yang terjadi sore itu...
jadi aku bermaksud memeriahkan pestamu sebisa mungkin dengan cara... bertepuk tangan.... (secara ga punya musical instrument, ga punya mic., ga punya acara utk meramaikan pesta)...
... sempat aku sambil tepuk tangan melihat ke arah meja yg dihuni anak2... dan Deny liat aku tepuk tangan trus ikutan tepuk tangan...
... tapi lama2 aku capek... tanganku panas dan merah... meski aku dah dibantu Sari, Satya dan Maria.... tapi aku tak mau menyerah...
... aha... aku punya akal... aku telpon Eve... dia ga dengar... untung lagi2 Deny dari kejauhan melihat kearah-ku... jadi aku bilangin spy dia kasitau Eve angkat telpon dan aku ajak Eve... Nyanyi yuk!....
... si Eve.. ternyata rada "ngeper" mungkin setelah melihat semua yang terjadi sore itu jadi dia bilang OKE mau nyanyi tapi tunggu lah setelah tamu agak berkurang. Intinya kita akan nyanyi utk Sondi dan Susi, tapi ga perlu kan ketika para tamu masih banyak memenuhi ruang resepsi....
... Yaaah... tapi oke lah... kupikir.... tapi begitu aku tutup telepon si Ray alias Iko nyolek.... intinya minta kita nyanyi memeriahkan suasana spy acara ga kosong (kayaknya pada saat itu kamu lagi minta Maria pergi nyari si Tammy yang megang wadah2 CD berisi hadiah, mau wedding bouquet tossing...
Dia sempat tanya apakah kita bisa nyanyi hanya dgn 2 mic.???
.... Belum tau die... (pikirku dalam ati)... Kalo lampu2 kecil di dahan2 pohon di lapangan golf, grand piano dan pelaminan cantik aja ga hadir kenapa pula kita pusing cuma punya 2 mic.!!!
... Jadi aku telp lg Eve di belakang sono tapi boro2 dia angkat jadi aku mulai berjalan ke arah meja ngetem-nya anak2 tapi eh entah mengapa ternyata anak2 sedang berjalan menuju pelaminan, siap menyanyi!
... Langsung kucolek si mas MC...
Cint n Cau... si mas MC cilik ini tampangnya bener2 ga pede, ga approve deh pokoke waktu kubilang kita mau nyanyi... Same concern... only two mics. bla bla bla... tapi ku tak peduli, pokoke mau nyanyi!!! dia malah sempat naik ke pelaminan n tanya ke Sondi if it is OK for us to sing... Namun....
..... pada saat itu... demi cinta dan semangat membahagiakan Sondi... rombongan bonek yang sudah berketetapan hati sudah tiba di tepi pelaminan sementara Lea dan Brad masih asik2 melantunkan lagu WCBIL yg mlm itu udah kayak radio rusak diputer berkali2...
LALU... entah krn sepatu basah dan badan kedinginan bekas keujanan, atau krn ketek kringetan krn ga ada AC atau krn kaget liat Whitney Houston dateng ama anaknya Mbak Maya atau karena kebanyakan makan soun dan lauk curah (maksudnya diambil langsung dari loyang raksasa milik orang catering) atau krn semangat abis rebutan es puter n salmon pie isi tuna??? or krn kebanyakan makan papaya ;-p....
... the next thing I know... ternyata hampir semua member TCI hafal yah lagu cengeng macam WCBIL... (kalo aku jelas hapal krn udah berhari2 menjadikan lagu tsb wajib ampe ke cengkok2nye)... and as we sing... and bear witness to our own super lovely voices... tanpa sadar kita nyanyi dengan semakin lantang, wajah sumringah bagaikan dipilih menang Indonesian Idol, dan mengerumbul saling menguatkan mental tiba2 nyanyi lah kita sejadi2nya di depan hadirin di pesta kebun indoor... wah wah wah....
Juaranya tentu slh 1 tembang yg emang sudah dipersiapkan " Seasons of Love"....
... Entah kamu tau ga Son, pertama aku mendengungkan note, Eja langsung nangkep n ancang2 ambil suara... ternyata salah bok... menurut Deny, karena dia mungkin di dalem kepalanya ada garpu tala otomat, jadi lah kita mengambil nada... aaaaa... (padahal kan mustinya faiv....).... Five hundred twnty five thousand six hundred minutes.... dst dst dst....
.... ga cuma nyanyi... tapi bener2 nyanyi sepenuh hati to the whole audience... to the poor mics.
... yg sempat kulihat... wajah2 yg awalnya malu2, mata yg agak panik... ah stra-lah... lalu berubah jadi sorot2 jenaka..., congor membuka lebar2 mengalahkan udara dan karpet yang menyerap nyanyian kita. SING LOUD SING BEAUTIFUL!!! Odie yg memegang kertas music dgn wajah malu2... ga apal dia... sepintas kulihat jarinya tetep melakukan gerakan jreng-jreng-jreng, tanpa piano! Haibat!... sementara Erik memotret dgn muka "I'm sorry I'm not singing along guys" dan Deny menggila... Eja mencengkok, Noni dan Grace orgasme, Eve berpikir... aku wanita cantik yg perkasa dan bersuara indah... TM mbathin... "Strraa...lah...! Iko terlihat kagum... entah sama kualitas nyanyiannya atau sama keberanian kita... dan aku... melirik Sondi... ekspresinya... "Gila mertua gue liat temen2 gue edan semua ga tau malu... They'll understand me better now.. phew... Keren abisssss!!!!"...
EVELYN
Sinetron beneeerrrr….
Iya! Kita support tepung tangan kok dari "markas" meja pojok! Sempet kebawa mellow sih… tapi waktu Sondi minta (melalui speechnya),
untuk be happy for him… ya udah… gue berusaha untuk menjadi gembira.
Kenapa gue ragu buat nyanyi, Da? Karena gue ga yakin ada space buat kita antara para tamu yang seliwar-seliwir berebut makan.
Jadi biarlah tamu-tamu itu puas dengan makanan dulu, baru dengan suasana agak intimate kita nyanyi…
Cumaaaa…. semangat banci tampil TCI itu ternyata lebih menggelora daripada napsu makan para tamu…
Huahahaha… tau ga….
Kan kita nyanyi WCBIL…… abis nyanyi si MC bilang… yak itulah persembahan lagu dari Choir Immortal… (sambil ngambil mike)
Dan….. dengan semangatnya…. Kita bilang. BELUM! BUKAN ITU LAGUNYA…. ADA SATU LAGI!
Dan dengan tampang kaget, si MC balikin mikenya…
*ngakak…..
Huh ! sekarang aja gue ngakak ! padahal waktu nyanyi season of love kayaknya mata gue berkaca-kaca.
Dasar conductor tak berguna… Farewell Lorna nyanyi Amigos Para Siempre… nangis…
Misa terakhir Lorna… lagi conduct nangis..
Kawinan Sondi nangis juga….
Uh…. Untung conductornya cantik…. ;p
EP (Elza Perez)
Ada episode yang hilang, yaitu episode dimana gua & Ida melantunkan lagu-lagu cinta dibawah naungan tenda dengan cahaya remang-remang dan udara yang lembab di iringi rintikan hujan, sampai membaca partitur harus dengan cahaya handphone…menghibur tamu-tamu yang gundah gulana menunggu hujan reda tapi tetep sibuk makan buah lengkeng & anggur dari meja di belakang kita…huh !
LEONY
Nahloh... heheheh
Doesn't matter, intinya, para penganten baru, moga-moga cepet dapet momongan yaaaa....
Oh iya, menyambung kisah kawinan Sondi, kmarin itu, dari rumah gue sudah membawa asisten loh.... yaitu adek gue, untuk gue gunakan kantongnya, menyimpan lipatan2 lagu Seasons of Love yang sebanyak lima lembar itu dan tidak muat di clutch gue yang imut hahaha...
Pas suasana agak-agak muram karena tidak ada musik dll, keberadaan microphone, walaupun cuma 2 biji, menurut gue telah membangkitkan semangat para anggota2 kita untuk setidaknya mempunyai harapan untuk bernyanyi, ditambah lagi Ida yang dengan riang gembira maju ke depan untuk bertepuk tangan pas potong kue. Gue juga di depan, tapi tepuk tangan gue tidak semenggema Ida yang melakukannya dengan kekuatan super power 10 Mega Watt.
Intinya, it was wonderful to be there... pas awalnya gue sempet merasa sedih dan muram, apalagi Sondi saat itu sudah mulai berkaca-kaca. Tetapi somehow Sondi's wedding was very memorable, that I am gonna remember it forever. It was filled with laughter and joy, and just like a marriage itself, we might never know what is the meaning of the huge storm, but what we know for sure is, after the storm, there will always be a beautiful rainbow. Saaah.....
Monday, August 04, 2008
Undangan Pernikahan
Dear All my Blog Reader.
I am going to tie the knot.
Please find the invitation at :
http://www.kitaupload.com/download.php?file=700Wedding Invitation.ppt.
Best Regards,
Sondi
I am going to tie the knot.
Please find the invitation at :
http://www.kitaupload.com/download.php?file=700Wedding Invitation.ppt.
Best Regards,
Sondi
Monday, June 23, 2008
Karena mau merit....
I pray you'll be our eyes, and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer, as we go our way
Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe
-= The Prayer - Michelle Brach and Josh Groban =-
Sometimes it's hard to see beyond the choice we have to make and it is easier for us to blame others when the consequences from our choices come to challenge us.
I hate when my friends tell me about their problem with their spouse/partner.It's like they don't realize the choice they make and the promise they take.I mean somebody doesn't have to put a gun against their head when they decide to get married rite ?
A lack of understanding from their mind is what cause them to make blow up on the real problem.That's why they should read "Don't sweat the small stuff in love" (I'm not into this book thou,but as a matter a fact a lot of couple is..sweating on the small stuff).The bump on the love road is just ...a bump.It's not like a nuclear strike or Carpet bombing.Just undergo the bump...together.The ability to see beyond choices is very necessary to a healthy love life and we can practice it in our personal life (before you involve everybody else in your mess).
So when the tides comes (because the choice you make) you already prepare the boat and the safety jacket.
It take a Heaven of courage to make a decision,but it takes double of the effort to face the consequences. -= Sondi=-
narsis banget yakk
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer, as we go our way
Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe
-= The Prayer - Michelle Brach and Josh Groban =-
Sometimes it's hard to see beyond the choice we have to make and it is easier for us to blame others when the consequences from our choices come to challenge us.
I hate when my friends tell me about their problem with their spouse/partner.It's like they don't realize the choice they make and the promise they take.I mean somebody doesn't have to put a gun against their head when they decide to get married rite ?
A lack of understanding from their mind is what cause them to make blow up on the real problem.That's why they should read "Don't sweat the small stuff in love" (I'm not into this book thou,but as a matter a fact a lot of couple is..sweating on the small stuff).The bump on the love road is just ...a bump.It's not like a nuclear strike or Carpet bombing.Just undergo the bump...together.The ability to see beyond choices is very necessary to a healthy love life and we can practice it in our personal life (before you involve everybody else in your mess).
So when the tides comes (because the choice you make) you already prepare the boat and the safety jacket.
It take a Heaven of courage to make a decision,but it takes double of the effort to face the consequences. -= Sondi=-
narsis banget yakk
Thursday, June 19, 2008
FCUK YOU !!!
Intrigue by my friends Wira's Blog i would try to expand the topics in a quite a serious way.
Many of us ever heard our parents cursing at something unintentionally or not.
We heard that on TV, even the show for kids have a cursing dialogue in the scene.
No wonder a 3-4 years old kids could launch a full scale language attack on everybody.
In the other hands we (as an adult) never like to hear them saying all those things they shouldn't say.But,our society always try to deny that we as a person is the one who took the responsible in educating our young one.
They could blame others if they heard a young lings saying a nasty curse, their parents, their teacher,their neighbors...but they never blame them self for helping it happen.
Is it really hard not to say a cursing words (or another nasty words) for just one day ? i done that once...it is hard, it's getting easier as the days go by.I use to punish myself if i say something nasty by having a 5 times push up per words spoken.At the first day i broke up a record by 80 push ups...but in the sixth days i only do 15 push ups.Is it really that simple ? it is if we have a will to do it.
Life isn't always go as you plans, also the behavior of the people around you.But you can always control your temper, emotion and any words that come from your mouth.
Ramadhan is always a month of blessing...are you up to take the challenge ?
-= It is your choice to be happy or to be Grumpy everyday =- NN
Many of us ever heard our parents cursing at something unintentionally or not.
We heard that on TV, even the show for kids have a cursing dialogue in the scene.
No wonder a 3-4 years old kids could launch a full scale language attack on everybody.
In the other hands we (as an adult) never like to hear them saying all those things they shouldn't say.But,our society always try to deny that we as a person is the one who took the responsible in educating our young one.
They could blame others if they heard a young lings saying a nasty curse, their parents, their teacher,their neighbors...but they never blame them self for helping it happen.
Is it really hard not to say a cursing words (or another nasty words) for just one day ? i done that once...it is hard, it's getting easier as the days go by.I use to punish myself if i say something nasty by having a 5 times push up per words spoken.At the first day i broke up a record by 80 push ups...but in the sixth days i only do 15 push ups.Is it really that simple ? it is if we have a will to do it.
Life isn't always go as you plans, also the behavior of the people around you.But you can always control your temper, emotion and any words that come from your mouth.
Ramadhan is always a month of blessing...are you up to take the challenge ?
-= It is your choice to be happy or to be Grumpy everyday =- NN
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Preman amat sih loe ?
I do not know much about it. But I am very sure that the word Premanism is not on your Oxford English dictionary.
There is this news about a girl gang that bullies their new recruits in
The member is arrested by the police recently because a new recruit tell the police about their activities. They also manage to tape their activity with Hand phone…which is a very stupid idea considering what they have done is against the law.
I though that only happen in the movie or the world of man….but i was wrong, even now the girls just doing it without hesitation.
When the police ask them why they did that, they said that they did not know why. It’s jut that all of their senior doing it to them a couple years back when they are stills a new recruit, its like walk blindly to something that you did not know the cause.
I believe that a lot of us sometimes doing it too. We do something that we do not know why…the why something that we forget is. We loose our passion for something else which seems more valuable…but it does not actually.
This event of course jolts all the member parents, junior or senior. The lack of understanding about their daughter activity is something that they should be ashamed of. The Nero gang member is all girls from between 15 to 19 years old. How could you have a slightly idea about it? Especially when you are at central Java, when the cultures still suppress the woman in society to act aggressively in all social aspect of live. We are talking about the most modest people in the
Like it or not this is what happening in
Ever since the STPDN incident last year this is the biggest news about premanism in
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Love....a state of mind ?
Setelah diskusi yang cukup ga panjang...timbul konklusi bahwa cinta itu seperti fantasy...
lalu ada yang komen seperti ini:
gw sih percaya bahwa cinta itu emang fantasy, dalam arti "a state of mind", kayak yg dibilang sontoloyo.
however, kenapa donk orang bisa jatuh cinta kepada orang yang lain, dan bukan kepada yang lainnya?kalo cinta itu "a state of mind", artinya... sebenernya... ga ada donk yang namanya cinta?
karena itu hanya ilusi yang diciptakan oleh diri kita sendiri, sesuatu yang totally kita kendalikan...
a state of mind, rite?
Nah jawaban gue seperti di bawah ini :
Begini yah Mba'
Pertanyaannya kan...kenapa kita bisa jatuh cinta dengan orang tertentu dan tidak kepada orang lain ?
jawabannya ......P R E F E R E N S I ....yes preferensi yang ada di pikiran elo mengenai kriteria cowo2 yang bisa bikin elo jatuh cinta.
Darimana datangnya preferensi ? dari pengalaman kelima indra elo yang terekam di otak.
Whoops !! yes pernah nonton The matrix ? di film pertamanya si morpheus menjelaskan kepada neo bahwa semua yang elo rasakan dari lima indra elo hanya signal2 listrik yang mengalir ke bagian tertentu di sinapsis otak elo.
Apakah realitas itu belum tentu nyata ?? oh yeah baby...kalau memang cuman sengatan listrik di otak yang menimbulkan realitas tersebut....so jangankan cinta...cowo ganteng yang elo lihat pake mata elo ajah ...bisa jadi hanya signal listrik yang menyengat di otak...belom tentu beneran.
But then...apa yang paling penting adalah bagaimana kita mengartikan itu semua...what dearly to your life....pengalaman2 itu yang membentuk eksistensi elo di dunia ini.
Ga penting khayalan atau bukan....yang penting apa yang berarti di dalam hidup elo...
Kadang orang mengejar khayalannya begitu ngotot karena mereka menganggap itu penting bagi hidup mereka...walaupun keliatannya bodoh...tapi itu yang membuat dunia seperti sekarang ini.Terbang di udara itu....dulunya khayalan....begitu juga gelas bulat yang bisa memancarkan sinar tanpa api (bohlam)....
Hanya karena kita tidak bisa melihat apa yang orang lain lihat bukan berarti itu tidak nyata kan ? sama ajah kaya Tuhan.
Our life worth while if we pursue something that important to us....
Khayalan bagi orang lain ,mungkin bagi elo itu sangat nyata....kenapa ? karena signal itu terus menerus lewat di permukaan otak elo di tempat yang sama...sehingga terbentuk track (jalan) secara fisik di otak tersebut...itu yang terjadi kalau orang trauma...
Semoga membantu
lalu ada yang komen seperti ini:
gw sih percaya bahwa cinta itu emang fantasy, dalam arti "a state of mind", kayak yg dibilang sontoloyo.
however, kenapa donk orang bisa jatuh cinta kepada orang yang lain, dan bukan kepada yang lainnya?kalo cinta itu "a state of mind", artinya... sebenernya... ga ada donk yang namanya cinta?
karena itu hanya ilusi yang diciptakan oleh diri kita sendiri, sesuatu yang totally kita kendalikan...
a state of mind, rite?
Nah jawaban gue seperti di bawah ini :
Begini yah Mba'
Pertanyaannya kan...kenapa kita bisa jatuh cinta dengan orang tertentu dan tidak kepada orang lain ?
jawabannya ......P R E F E R E N S I ....yes preferensi yang ada di pikiran elo mengenai kriteria cowo2 yang bisa bikin elo jatuh cinta.
Darimana datangnya preferensi ? dari pengalaman kelima indra elo yang terekam di otak.
Whoops !! yes pernah nonton The matrix ? di film pertamanya si morpheus menjelaskan kepada neo bahwa semua yang elo rasakan dari lima indra elo hanya signal2 listrik yang mengalir ke bagian tertentu di sinapsis otak elo.
Apakah realitas itu belum tentu nyata ?? oh yeah baby...kalau memang cuman sengatan listrik di otak yang menimbulkan realitas tersebut....so jangankan cinta...cowo ganteng yang elo lihat pake mata elo ajah ...bisa jadi hanya signal listrik yang menyengat di otak...belom tentu beneran.
But then...apa yang paling penting adalah bagaimana kita mengartikan itu semua...what dearly to your life....pengalaman2 itu yang membentuk eksistensi elo di dunia ini.
Ga penting khayalan atau bukan....yang penting apa yang berarti di dalam hidup elo...
Kadang orang mengejar khayalannya begitu ngotot karena mereka menganggap itu penting bagi hidup mereka...walaupun keliatannya bodoh...tapi itu yang membuat dunia seperti sekarang ini.Terbang di udara itu....dulunya khayalan....begitu juga gelas bulat yang bisa memancarkan sinar tanpa api (bohlam)....
Hanya karena kita tidak bisa melihat apa yang orang lain lihat bukan berarti itu tidak nyata kan ? sama ajah kaya Tuhan.
Our life worth while if we pursue something that important to us....
Khayalan bagi orang lain ,mungkin bagi elo itu sangat nyata....kenapa ? karena signal itu terus menerus lewat di permukaan otak elo di tempat yang sama...sehingga terbentuk track (jalan) secara fisik di otak tersebut...itu yang terjadi kalau orang trauma...
Semoga membantu
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
What if ?
Udah lama nih ga nge blog...bener kata temen2 gue bahwa kita butuh inspirasi untuk nge blog.
Yasutra..akhirnya gue coba untuk ngeblog dengan topic..."Mimpi"
dulu waktu gue masih smp...gue sring ngimpi punya duit banyak bener....i mean tidur trus ngimpi...bukannya ber andai-andai.
Yang paling bete adalah impian gue itu kaga pernah sampe tahap gue belanjain tuh duit hahahahahahha....parah bener yah.
Gue selalu mikir coba pas gue bangun...minimal duit yang gue pegang di dalam mimpi gue...ada di tangan gue.pasti lumayan hehehehehhehe...boro2 yang bertumpuk2 itu.
Ada ga yah orang yang impian tidurnya jadi kenyataan ??...tapi maunya yang bagus ajah.
Yasutra..akhirnya gue coba untuk ngeblog dengan topic..."Mimpi"
dulu waktu gue masih smp...gue sring ngimpi punya duit banyak bener....i mean tidur trus ngimpi...bukannya ber andai-andai.
Yang paling bete adalah impian gue itu kaga pernah sampe tahap gue belanjain tuh duit hahahahahahha....parah bener yah.
Gue selalu mikir coba pas gue bangun...minimal duit yang gue pegang di dalam mimpi gue...ada di tangan gue.pasti lumayan hehehehehhehe...boro2 yang bertumpuk2 itu.
Ada ga yah orang yang impian tidurnya jadi kenyataan ??...tapi maunya yang bagus ajah.
Monday, April 14, 2008
Love...illusion or truth ?
I just found out a good argument about love, is it an illusion or is it true ?
Well, we have to look it at the same perspective i suppose, if you think that love is just a state of mind,an euphoria of the soul.Then,maybe love is illusion.
Example:
A girl is looking at a handsome boy (handsome is of course a relative terms,while ugly is absolute ^_^).This girl will having a certain illusion of what it's like to be that boy girlfriends...the process of such illusion is what we call falling in love.If the girl is not wake up soon enough she will be married still with such condition in her mind....they all said that when you are falling in love it is much more like sedative,you keep asking for more.
When the reality slap you in the face thats where the true form of such illusion reign her....well,her life could go miserable for falling in love (illusion).
But of course who are we to judge that love between the two person is an illusion ?What i was trying to say...are you sure that your love with your spouse is not an illusion ?
When you are preparing for your wedding ,you have to take a look on things...many things...even the wedding vow.That makes me think....like using my brain thinking...
I want to make my own love declaration....yeah its a declaration instead of wedding vow.Why ? because i am so gonna change that maybe i could not keep a vow or a wedding,not being pessimistic but who can guarantee that it will last for a lifetime...but,on the contrary if i declare my love is eternal...i will love my partner anyway..even if she does not want to be my wife anymore.
So below is some scribble about my love declaration a.k.a wedding vow:
Today i, Sontoloyo declare my love to Ms Sontoloyo for a lifetime, i decide to love her not because what she could give me,but for what i could give her.I decide to love her in her sad times and in my sad moments.I decide to love her when i am up and i am down.I decide to love her and grow with her together.I decide to love her and my family from now on till God take me to heaven.I decide that love will be the foundation of our relationship and communication.
and that just a scribble or a draft..i might not use any of that words...i might use it all.
I also believe that love is a decision,not a chance...not even a sanctuary for happiness...because i know that sometimes loves will bring you pain and sorrow so you could grow, a laughter and tears so you could measure your own strength.
Because i believe that love,truth ,freedom and God vibrate at the same frequency.
Well, we have to look it at the same perspective i suppose, if you think that love is just a state of mind,an euphoria of the soul.Then,maybe love is illusion.
Example:
A girl is looking at a handsome boy (handsome is of course a relative terms,while ugly is absolute ^_^).This girl will having a certain illusion of what it's like to be that boy girlfriends...the process of such illusion is what we call falling in love.If the girl is not wake up soon enough she will be married still with such condition in her mind....they all said that when you are falling in love it is much more like sedative,you keep asking for more.
When the reality slap you in the face thats where the true form of such illusion reign her....well,her life could go miserable for falling in love (illusion).
But of course who are we to judge that love between the two person is an illusion ?What i was trying to say...are you sure that your love with your spouse is not an illusion ?
When you are preparing for your wedding ,you have to take a look on things...many things...even the wedding vow.That makes me think....like using my brain thinking...
I want to make my own love declaration....yeah its a declaration instead of wedding vow.Why ? because i am so gonna change that maybe i could not keep a vow or a wedding,not being pessimistic but who can guarantee that it will last for a lifetime...but,on the contrary if i declare my love is eternal...i will love my partner anyway..even if she does not want to be my wife anymore.
So below is some scribble about my love declaration a.k.a wedding vow:
Today i, Sontoloyo declare my love to Ms Sontoloyo for a lifetime, i decide to love her not because what she could give me,but for what i could give her.I decide to love her in her sad times and in my sad moments.I decide to love her when i am up and i am down.I decide to love her and grow with her together.I decide to love her and my family from now on till God take me to heaven.I decide that love will be the foundation of our relationship and communication.
and that just a scribble or a draft..i might not use any of that words...i might use it all.
I also believe that love is a decision,not a chance...not even a sanctuary for happiness...because i know that sometimes loves will bring you pain and sorrow so you could grow, a laughter and tears so you could measure your own strength.
Because i believe that love,truth ,freedom and God vibrate at the same frequency.
Tuesday, April 01, 2008
Jodoh...Darimana yah ?
Jodoh itu dari siapa ? well kalau elo percaya bahwa Tuhan adalah Segalanya...maka jawabannya yah pasti iya dari Tuhan.(berarti kan hansip itu Tuhan,temen itu Tuhan,gunung himalaya itu Tuhan,Tante itu Tuhan).
Mengenai jodoh (atau apapun) gue percaya bahwa "Tuhan menentukan , manusia berusaha".Jangan di balik yah....kalau di balik kesannya terlalu mengkambing hitamkan Tuhan..
So elo pasti percaya bahwa: kalau Tuhan tidak menaruh jodoh elo di atas bumi ini elo kaga akan dapet jodoh ...the fact that semua yang diciptakan di dunia ini berpasangan (di alkitab sih begitu)....berarti elo juga udah ada pasangannya...and yess berarti Tuhan sudah menentukan sejak awal....selanjutnya adalah proses penemuan pasangan elo sendiri...konyolnya si Tuhan itu...Dia kaga pernah ngasih tau kapan (waktu/when),yang mana(jumlah relasi yang harus dibangun/who) dan dimana(tempat/where) jodoh elo berada...you do the why and how yourself.
Ada orang yang jodohnya datang cepat (waktu singkat), ada orang yang jodohnya dekat (tempatnya) ,ada orang yang sekali pacaran langsung jadi pasangan seumur hidup (jumlah relasi sedikit).
What to do then ???
Oke beruntung ada teori statistik....
Asumption : there is a whole deck of 52 cards (bridge playing cards)...
We believe that there is 4 Aces in that deck right ?
If we shuffle it and we put it in the table...how many Aces could we find in that deck ? still 4 aces....
Is it gonna be Ace at the first time we flip the top of the deck ?? maybe....maybe not.
So after a couple of cards we turned but we did not find the aces...do we loose our believe about 4 aces in every deck of whole cards ? No...and that kind of believe is something that we believe that jodoh itu dari Tuhan ...but we just have to open another cards to find it...Also added a couple of equation like you are not searching for 4 aces...you are searching for 1 ace only...the variable is :
1. Your understanding about what your ace would be ? (color,mark,value,physical appearance etc)
2. How many cards you have to turn to find your ace ? (because it is not as simple as 52 cards).
3. When you decide to turn the card and the next one ?
4. When you will give up finding your ace and satisfied with kings or jacks cards ?
5. and so on (gue males mikirnya)
So, all man (human being not gender) must strive to find the right person to spend their life with....is it gonna be hard ? it is always depends on how your judgment about yourself and your life.
Mengenai jodoh (atau apapun) gue percaya bahwa "Tuhan menentukan , manusia berusaha".Jangan di balik yah....kalau di balik kesannya terlalu mengkambing hitamkan Tuhan..
So elo pasti percaya bahwa: kalau Tuhan tidak menaruh jodoh elo di atas bumi ini elo kaga akan dapet jodoh ...the fact that semua yang diciptakan di dunia ini berpasangan (di alkitab sih begitu)....berarti elo juga udah ada pasangannya...and yess berarti Tuhan sudah menentukan sejak awal....selanjutnya adalah proses penemuan pasangan elo sendiri...konyolnya si Tuhan itu...Dia kaga pernah ngasih tau kapan (waktu/when),yang mana(jumlah relasi yang harus dibangun/who) dan dimana(tempat/where) jodoh elo berada...you do the why and how yourself.
Ada orang yang jodohnya datang cepat (waktu singkat), ada orang yang jodohnya dekat (tempatnya) ,ada orang yang sekali pacaran langsung jadi pasangan seumur hidup (jumlah relasi sedikit).
What to do then ???
Oke beruntung ada teori statistik....
Asumption : there is a whole deck of 52 cards (bridge playing cards)...
We believe that there is 4 Aces in that deck right ?
If we shuffle it and we put it in the table...how many Aces could we find in that deck ? still 4 aces....
Is it gonna be Ace at the first time we flip the top of the deck ?? maybe....maybe not.
So after a couple of cards we turned but we did not find the aces...do we loose our believe about 4 aces in every deck of whole cards ? No...and that kind of believe is something that we believe that jodoh itu dari Tuhan ...but we just have to open another cards to find it...Also added a couple of equation like you are not searching for 4 aces...you are searching for 1 ace only...the variable is :
1. Your understanding about what your ace would be ? (color,mark,value,physical appearance etc)
2. How many cards you have to turn to find your ace ? (because it is not as simple as 52 cards).
3. When you decide to turn the card and the next one ?
4. When you will give up finding your ace and satisfied with kings or jacks cards ?
5. and so on (gue males mikirnya)
So, all man (human being not gender) must strive to find the right person to spend their life with....is it gonna be hard ? it is always depends on how your judgment about yourself and your life.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Underwater photoshoot part II (bloopers)
Pose di peluk sama setan "The Ring" Sodako hiiiiyyyyyy serem banget...oh my rambut.
Sayang cintaku seperti bunga yang copot ini ...beuhhhhhh
Semesra itulah posenya.....kalau bunganya kaga copot terus...BETE !
Kolam berenang yang angker ...pernah ga loe lagi nelepon trus tiba2 kaya ada yang nyubit dari belakang....jangan nengok yah...siapa tau Sodako...hiiiyyyyyy
Inilah yang terjadi bila pernikahan sudah berlangsung lama.....(sambil nyanyi) "racun di tangan kananmu,apel di tangan kirimu" WA DZIGH !!!!
Monday, March 24, 2008
Kakak angkat Suck !!
Baru dapet dari forum nih...pengakuan resmi tentang bagaimana sulitnya laki2 dalam mendapatkan perempuan idaman.
Icha punya 8 kakak angkat cowok, yang sampe sekarang tetap kakak angkat. Memang beberapa dari mereka murni awal perkenalan dengan tujuan jadi kakak angkat, tapi ada juga yang memang icha sengaja jadikan kakak angkat untuk menghindari hubungan yang lebih dekat alias pacaran.
Perempuan yang kaga mau cowo itu menjadi pacar tetapi pengen tetep dekat akan mengangkat "kakak" terhadap cowo itu.
See that means my theory is true bahwa perempuan itu adalah makhluk yang haus akan perhatian...mereka pengen terus di perhatikan dengan konsekwensi se minimal mungkin...makanya mereka mengangkat "kakak" dengan harapan dapat terus mendapat perhatian tanpa harus membalas perhatian tersebut secara eksplisit atau romantis.
Itu resiko yang sangat kecil ketimbang harus menjauh dan kehilangan kesempatan untuk di perhatikan.
Disinilah sebenarnya kesulitan seorang cowo dalam mencari pacar.Menurut teori gue (lagi), again ini hanya teori gue....
"Perempuan menentukan cowo itu akan jadi "kakak" atau pacar at the early stage of relationship"
Dengan arti........kalau elo tidak dianggap kakak,beruntunglah, karena elo berpotensi sebagai pacar....bukan berarti kalau elo udah jadi "kakak" elo kaga bisa berubah status menjadi pacar.....tetapi hal ini sulit terjadi apabila yang mendeklarasi ke"kakak" an elo adalah sang perempuan.
Tindakan {egois} ini bisa saja diambil oleh perempuan kalau dia pengen keep close sama seorang cowo,but not "that" close.Mungkin dipandang bahwa cowo itu menguntungkan bagi pihak perempuan atau si perempuan tidak ingin menyakiti cowo tersebut....yeah..keep it close lah intinya.
So untuk para lelaki out there...hati2 frekswensi perhatian elo bisa menjadi bumerang bagi diri elo sendiri.
Ingat perhatian intens untuk cewe yang belom jadi pacar elo itu berbahaya....nanti elo masuk ke dalam jebakan "kakak-adik" yang ga mungkin simbiosis mutualisme...malah cenderung parasitisme.
Sebenernya dalil ini Vice versa...agar adil....seorang cowo juga bisa melakukan ini kepada kaum hawa...tapi kalau menurut gue sih kaga jantan lah loe kalau melakukan ini....kalau kaga suka tolak ajah...ga usah pake kakak adik segala dah....kasihan tau kalau cewe itu masih mengharap suatu saat elo bisa jadi cowo dia.....
Catatan:
Icha punya 8 kakak angkat cowok, yang sampe sekarang tetap kakak angkat. Memang beberapa dari mereka murni awal perkenalan dengan tujuan jadi kakak angkat, tapi ada juga yang memang icha sengaja jadikan kakak angkat untuk menghindari hubungan yang lebih dekat alias pacaran.
Perempuan yang kaga mau cowo itu menjadi pacar tetapi pengen tetep dekat akan mengangkat "kakak" terhadap cowo itu.
See that means my theory is true bahwa perempuan itu adalah makhluk yang haus akan perhatian...mereka pengen terus di perhatikan dengan konsekwensi se minimal mungkin...makanya mereka mengangkat "kakak" dengan harapan dapat terus mendapat perhatian tanpa harus membalas perhatian tersebut secara eksplisit atau romantis.
Itu resiko yang sangat kecil ketimbang harus menjauh dan kehilangan kesempatan untuk di perhatikan.
Disinilah sebenarnya kesulitan seorang cowo dalam mencari pacar.Menurut teori gue (lagi), again ini hanya teori gue....
"Perempuan menentukan cowo itu akan jadi "kakak" atau pacar at the early stage of relationship"
Dengan arti........kalau elo tidak dianggap kakak,beruntunglah, karena elo berpotensi sebagai pacar....bukan berarti kalau elo udah jadi "kakak" elo kaga bisa berubah status menjadi pacar.....tetapi hal ini sulit terjadi apabila yang mendeklarasi ke"kakak" an elo adalah sang perempuan.
Tindakan {egois} ini bisa saja diambil oleh perempuan kalau dia pengen keep close sama seorang cowo,but not "that" close.Mungkin dipandang bahwa cowo itu menguntungkan bagi pihak perempuan atau si perempuan tidak ingin menyakiti cowo tersebut....yeah..keep it close lah intinya.
So untuk para lelaki out there...hati2 frekswensi perhatian elo bisa menjadi bumerang bagi diri elo sendiri.
Ingat perhatian intens untuk cewe yang belom jadi pacar elo itu berbahaya....nanti elo masuk ke dalam jebakan "kakak-adik" yang ga mungkin simbiosis mutualisme...malah cenderung parasitisme.
Sebenernya dalil ini Vice versa...agar adil....seorang cowo juga bisa melakukan ini kepada kaum hawa...tapi kalau menurut gue sih kaga jantan lah loe kalau melakukan ini....kalau kaga suka tolak ajah...ga usah pake kakak adik segala dah....kasihan tau kalau cewe itu masih mengharap suatu saat elo bisa jadi cowo dia.....
Catatan:
Jangan pernah ngomong bahwa elo siap jadi "kakak" dari seorang perempuan kalau elo masih bisa terekspose dengan asmara dan daya pikat dari perempuan tersebut.Wedewww...bisa nyesel ..sel...sel deh loe.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
PASKAH IS COMING
ehem....mo sedikit spiritual nih hari ini.
Paskah, hari di mana Isa Al masih mati untuk menebus dosa seluruh umat manusia (kata Alkitab).
Bagi gue Paskah adalah kemenangan besar bagi manusia....Paskah adalah contoh di mana seorang manusia bisa menjadi berkah bagi sesama manusia.
well you do not have to die for them...just to compensate their sorrow or pain is enough.
Memang kadang gue juga masih suka ignore orang yang butuh bantuan...mungkin karena sebagian besar mereka hanya malas...
kadang bantuan yang paling besar yang bisa kita berikan adalah membiarkan mereka....
Kemaren waktu gue lagi makan di daerah pecenongan ada anak muda...mungkin se umur gue kali (ciyeeee gue masih muda yooo) minta2 duit...katanya sih buat makan...gue sebel benerrrr....kenapa ? karena dia sehat wal afiat bow...akhirnya gue kasih makanan ajah ehhehehehehe....biar gue sebel gue tetep kasihan.
Padahal peminta minta itu udah di bentak sama tante2 yang punya warung makan (udah tua bow 60 lebih)..
"Kalau mau punya duit kerja loe, gue ajah yang udah tua gini masih kerja"
WOWWW...that is really struck my mind...fortunately not him.....dia si ndableg banget keliatannya.
anyway busway si Isa itu...punya beberapa hal yang seharusnya manusia lain macam kita juga punya:
1. Percaya diri yang tinggi.
2. Determinasi.
3. The power of the dream.
4. Disisplin
yang paling penting INTEGRITAS...he is doing what he saying.
selama ini gue merasa banyak orang misserable dalam hidupnya karena mereka ga punya intergritas...mereka terlalu mengikuti arus (baca:nasib).
We can change it if we just have anything like Isa guy haves.
So selamat hari PASKAH bagi yang merayakan...satu lagi panutan bagus di contohkan buat kita.
Kita bisa jadi seperti siapapun yang kita mau....even closer to heaven throne.
Paskah, hari di mana Isa Al masih mati untuk menebus dosa seluruh umat manusia (kata Alkitab).
Bagi gue Paskah adalah kemenangan besar bagi manusia....Paskah adalah contoh di mana seorang manusia bisa menjadi berkah bagi sesama manusia.
well you do not have to die for them...just to compensate their sorrow or pain is enough.
Memang kadang gue juga masih suka ignore orang yang butuh bantuan...mungkin karena sebagian besar mereka hanya malas...
kadang bantuan yang paling besar yang bisa kita berikan adalah membiarkan mereka....
Kemaren waktu gue lagi makan di daerah pecenongan ada anak muda...mungkin se umur gue kali (ciyeeee gue masih muda yooo) minta2 duit...katanya sih buat makan...gue sebel benerrrr....kenapa ? karena dia sehat wal afiat bow...akhirnya gue kasih makanan ajah ehhehehehehe....biar gue sebel gue tetep kasihan.
Padahal peminta minta itu udah di bentak sama tante2 yang punya warung makan (udah tua bow 60 lebih)..
"Kalau mau punya duit kerja loe, gue ajah yang udah tua gini masih kerja"
WOWWW...that is really struck my mind...fortunately not him.....dia si ndableg banget keliatannya.
anyway busway si Isa itu...punya beberapa hal yang seharusnya manusia lain macam kita juga punya:
1. Percaya diri yang tinggi.
2. Determinasi.
3. The power of the dream.
4. Disisplin
yang paling penting INTEGRITAS...he is doing what he saying.
selama ini gue merasa banyak orang misserable dalam hidupnya karena mereka ga punya intergritas...mereka terlalu mengikuti arus (baca:nasib).
We can change it if we just have anything like Isa guy haves.
So selamat hari PASKAH bagi yang merayakan...satu lagi panutan bagus di contohkan buat kita.
Kita bisa jadi seperti siapapun yang kita mau....even closer to heaven throne.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Underwater photoshoot
Baru ajah hari jumat kemaren gue sempet melakukan underwater photo shoot.
Wow hasilnya keren abies bow..sayang gue kaga bisa share karena masih raw...gue emang berencana untuk menguploadnya setelah di olah pake photoshop.
kata juru potonya gue photo.....shop....genic ahuhauhauhauhauahhua parahhhhh
sekian saja laporan saya...tumben2an kan gue posting kejadian yang kaya begini....biasanya yang tidak menimbulkan ke narsisan gue.
Daripada di katain kenapa kaga update heehehehehehehhe
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